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The Best Relationship Advice for Happy Couples
Concrete tips and techniques to bring bliss (and spice) into your life.
Published on February 10, 2022
All About Love: New Visions
bell hooksbell hooks is considered one of the most brilliant writers about love and the power of community, and her recent passing is a great loss to the literary community. “All About Love” is required reading for anyone who wants to learn how to love without limits, be unafraid to ask for what they need, and show up fully and authentically in their relationships.
The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts
Gary ChapmanBefore starting a conversation with someone, you have to be sure you’re communicating in the same language. The same goes for relationships: Are the things that make you feel loved the same as your partner’s? If not, do you know how to make your partner feel loved, and ask for the same in return? That’s where this book comes in. It easily breaks down the five things that people often need to feel loved, so you and your partner can be on the same page.
Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love
Helen FisherWhat exactly is love anyway? An anthropologist scanned the brains of people in love to find out. Her fascinating results shine a light on everything from love at first sight to the evolution of passion. Stimulating for both the romantic-at-heart and the scientifically-minded.
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert, Revised and Updated
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert, Revised and Updated
John M. Gottman, PhD“The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck” author Mark Manson calls this book “a great primer on what actually makes a relationship work” in his blog post “5 Relationship Books Everyone Should Read.” Renowned relationship doctor John Gottman shares research-driven techniques for cultivating strong, positive habits in a marriage that can prevent problems from happening in the first place.
Attachment Theory: A Guide to Strengthening the Relationships in Your Life
Thais GibsonIf you’re on “dating TikTok” or follow #relationshipgoals on Instagram, you’re probably familiar with attachment theory. This straightforward resource on how the relationships with our childhood caregivers can influence how we approach intimacy and connection is perfect for anyone looking to build stronger relationships by understanding their past.
The Game of Desire: 5 Surprising Secrets to Dating with Dominance - and Getting What You Want
The Game of Desire: 5 Surprising Secrets to Dating with Dominance - and Getting What You Want
Shannon BoodramWhat exactly are the rules of attraction, love, and dating when they feel like they’re continuously and rapidly changing? Enter YouTube sensation and certified sex educator Shan Boodram. “The Game of Desire” sets the record straight on how to succeed in the dating landscape and gives no-nonsense advice on how to attract and retain the partners you want.
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy
Jessica FernThink traditional relationship structures aren’t for you? “Polysecure” is an excellent resource for those pursuing or are curious about nonmonogamy. Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern recognizes the skillset for thriving within multiple relationships is different than what’s required for monogamy, and shares six key strategies to feeling happier and more secure with more than one partner.
The Art of Communicating
Thich Nhat HanhRepresenting your true self is key to proper communication, and thus relationships, according to Buddhist monk and Zen master Thich Nat Hanh. His impactful guide to communication is filled with examples from his work with everyone from couples to families, offering insights to the listening and speaking skills that will change the way you live.
Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
Emily NagoskiUsing groundbreaking research, Nagoski shares the science behind creating a sex life rooted in confidence and joy. Often recommended by sex therapists, “Come as You Are” is a must-read for anyone looking to unlearn shame, feel more comfortable in their bodies, and improve their life – inside and outside the bedroom.
Healthy Relationships: A Couple’s Therapy Guide to Overcome Jealousy, Anxiety, Insecurity and Attachment
Healthy Relationships: A Couple’s Therapy Guide to Overcome Jealousy, Anxiety, Insecurity and Attachment
Michelle MartinWhen relationships get rocky, it can be difficult to find common ground with your partner. “Healthy Relationships” recognizes the complexity and variety in human relationships, and provides conflict resolution advice that’s easy to implement without being one-size-fits-all.
How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self
How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self
Dr. Nicole LePeraEveryone wants to be the best version of themselves within their relationships, and LaPera wants to help get you there. In this engrossing read, she compiles evidenced-based, holistic, self-healing methods from a group of diverse teachers to help readers recognize triggers and release negative thought patterns and behaviors that often disrupt loving partnerships.
How to Fall in Love with Anyone: A Memoir in Essays
Mandy Len CatronIn the day and age of Tinder and online dating (and COVID-19), finding “true love” seems more elusive than ever. Part memoir, part scientific investigation into how love works, Mandy Catron has advice on love that both hopeless romantics and jaded cynics need to hear.
Boundaries and Relationships: Knowing, Protecting and Enjoying the Self
Charles L. Whitfield, MDBoundaries are the cornerstone of creating and maintaining healthy partnerships, especially during a pandemic. This comprehensive guide to recognizing, setting, and maintaining personal boundaries is like a mini at-home therapy session that keeps it real for anyone who wants to bring more balance to their relationships.